Your Diagnosis Changed Everything.
Including Your Relationship with Death.
You don't need more "stay positive" advice. You need honest engagement with what you're actually facing. This 3-minute assessment reveals where you stand—and shows you a path beyond terror and performance.
If Any of This Sounds Familiar...
You're exhausted from performing "brave patient" for family and friends
The terror that wakes you at 3am has no place in "stay positive" culture
Support groups focus on fighting cancer, not facing death honestly
You want to be present with family without fear hijacking every moment
This assessment is for you. No performances required.
What You'll Discover
Where You Actually Stand
Honest assessment of your relationship with mortality—not what you perform for others.
What's Blocking You
Identify what prevents authentic engagement—family expectations, medical culture, your own defenses.
A Path Forward
Cancer-specific recommendations for engaging death as advisor, not enemy.
Your Readiness Level
Understand your capacity for intensive death work versus needing gentler introduction.
From Others Facing Diagnosis
"After my breast cancer diagnosis, everyone wanted me to 'fight.' This assessment finally let me admit I was terrified—and showed me there was something beyond terror."
— Sarah, Stage 3 breast cancer
"The results helped me understand why I couldn't be present with my kids. Within weeks of starting this work, the constant panic subsided into something I could actually work with."
— James, pancreatic cancer
"I wish I'd found this earlier in my treatment. The assessment showed me exactly what was keeping me stuck in performance mode rather than actually living."
— Maria, ovarian cancer survivor
Your responses are completely confidential. No one else will see them.